Women: I just want you to understand me better..
Woman: How come you never try to understand me huh? Told you million times and please be sensitive!! (Woman screaming..)
Do you think you have the above problem?? Does your girl always grumbling at you??
If the answer was YES, then you are “one in a million” of guy who facing the same problem..Do you think women are hard to understand what they want? Some say yes and some say no! Here you go to be a better man (hurray).
#1: Some guys do. Te younger they are, the less they are likely to understand women and what women want.
#2: Pople usually don’t know what they themselves want. If they themselves don’t know what they want, how much more the people who rely only on what they say?
#3: Guys have basic needs and women have more emotional needs that men are taught to suppress feelings at a young age. Verbal perfect word selection to hit that exact need women have is difficult for us to project from our brain to our lips. one of my friends used to tell his wife that he loved her and “stuff” but she had a low self esteem from other experiences in her life that she never believed him!
#4: I believe the way we accept love or words of affirmation is greatly hindered by our self esteem. This makes the things you want to hear and may be being expressed to you, and therefore never meets your needs.
#5: I know guys are quite clueless a lot of times. But sometimes I wonder, if men suddenly woke up tomorrow and just knew what women wanted, we probably wouldn’t like them as much! Maybe their insensitivity is part of the charm, what makes them men. Things like being honest, not cheating, etc should just be common sense.
Of course, we always attracted to the masculinity of men and what distinguished between men and women, such as “ying-yang”. Men are still the smartest creature on this planet and they have survived till now. Just saying, be more considerate and tolerate in order to make our life more completed.
p/s: It’s easy to be a better man just a matter of patient and sincerity, which we will discuss next post..
April 17th, 2007 at 1:16 am
I never been mumbled by a girl or woman except my mother.
It is also because I don’t have a girlfriend too !
Hehe
But, for me, it’s true that a man becomes more matured in older age.
Man are created to protect the woman and a woman is a weak person
But in a man, their common sense characteristic is more than their emotional needs..
While in a woman, emotion plays an important part rather than their common sense..
that why man and women are created.
It’s to complete each other in this world.
this also the same as the Yin-yang concept.
In daily communication of coarse, sometimes men are likely to be clueless in conversation.
Introverted person are always in this type of trouble.
But we can improve our communication skills by try o start a conversation with anybody.
Even sometimes, a quite person can become a “scintillating coversationist” if he realize his true abilities !
To be a better men needs preseverance and continous effort.
Men should be calm, intelligent, smart, and creative in handling problems.
Men have very huge responsibilities.
And not to forget, all men is a leader.
they are the leader to themselves, their family and even their country !
So guys, give out your best quality and believe in yourself..
April 17th, 2007 at 4:15 pm
azmi.. are u sure.. huhuhu.. just kiddin’.. yup.. i couldnt agree more with azmi.. im too tired to type the explanation.. hehehe.. but i do think that azmi had explained well..
April 17th, 2007 at 9:54 pm
misss…..
when you will put our last lecture picture in this blog…????
im waiting for that.
huhuhu