Why you “GUYS” always broke the promises?
Allow me to say something before i started to point my finger to the menhood.
As defined in the Bible, manhood is a functional reality, demonstrated in a man’s fulfillment of responsibility and leadership. A man is called to fulfill his role as husband and father in marriage and fatherhood. Marriage is unparalleled in its effect on men, as it channels their energies and directs their responsibilities to the devoted covenant of marriage in order to create the dynamic and harmony of a family.
On the other hand, a real man knows how to hold a job, handle money with responsibility and take care of the needs of his wife and family. A failure to develop economic maturity means that young men often float from job to job, and take years to “find themselves” in terms of career and vocation. Once again, an extended adolescence marks a huge segment of today’s young male population. Slothfulness, laziness and economic carelessness are marks of immaturity. A real man knows how to earn, manage and respect money.
Why do some of the guys always can’t fulfill his own responsibilty as a guy as a lovely husband to his wife; at the same time as a devoted father to his children? Why is that so hard to take action and always let us down? Are we asking too much from a guy?
Let me convince you more: As a boy grows into manhood, he must develop moral maturity as he aspires to righteousness. Stereotypical behavior on the part of young males is, in the main, marked by recklessness, irresponsibility and worse. Of course, this requires the exercise of responsible moral reasoning. Is that right to say that men acquire the irresponsibility “attitude” during their growing process??
Anybody can defence for me? or object my saying? Thanks!
September 22nd, 2007 at 5:18 pm
Yeah lor, why guys always break promises? I think this is quite different from one individual to another. I do agree of what you had written. Breaking promise to something that can’t fulfill is bad, I will never break promise to someone I love if can. Guy should have planning, a good plan when young in term of financial and career, else they you will end up having alot of problem. Take my advise and try to plan for your future. This will keep your future less difficult.
I have learned my lesson and I will try my best to catch up something I lost.
September 24th, 2007 at 12:26 am
maybe it’s different from guy to guy.
my bf has never broken any promises he made to me. he only promise on things that he’s 100% sure that he can fulfill it. he won’t simply promise just to break it later.
September 25th, 2007 at 9:22 pm
Honestly, I don’t really get it. Both Guys and Girls break promise. It doesn’t only Guys break promise. It is not majority too. I have known a lot girls who break a lot of promises too. Here is my thought, people break promise usually is due to the emotional factors. They know breaking promise is not good but when sometimes their emotional overwrite their mind, they feel like they should break the promise. So, they chose to break to promise to fulfill his/her emotional needs. Another factors is priority. When there is higher priority stuff that conflict with the promise that he/she agreed to keep, they will have to give to the higher priority stuff and therefore breaking the low priority promise and later only try to deposit again the trust of the person that you break the promise.
September 25th, 2007 at 11:24 pm
Totally agree with u! That is the ideal men, the perfect husband & a good father! Unfortunately this sort of men is rare.Sure got some defect wan! Eg. men who are good, rich but lousy in pokeing! But still can accept him!
She must be good in bed! Sexy! Good in cooking! An advantage if she can do some sawing! Oh! She must also have a well paid job! The ideal lady every men want to be his wife! But this type of lady is very very rare!
So men & women are more or less equal. To choose a ‘good’ partner a less then ‘good’ is already a perfect match! So what say u?? Have a nice day!
October 2nd, 2007 at 5:28 pm
Thanks for all the comment.
Hi Kenneth,
Yea, great, wish you had what you want in your life, keep it up.
Hi Ithink,
I congratulate you that you have a nice guy with you. You gonna appreciate what you had.
Hi ChampDog,
You got your point here, expect the unexpected, it is inevitable sometimes promise is not fulfill. May need to judge on how important the thing, if it cause life and dead, it may be harmful, it is much depend on whether the other party accept or not.
Hi Horny AngMoh,
Definitely when you go shopping for grocery, you may look for price and the quality of the product, i do not mean bf/gf or husband/wife is a product, but we will choose the one that suit us. There’s no perfect person, tolerate bring happiness. You may soon get what your ideal partner in life.
October 5th, 2007 at 5:20 pm
it depends on each guy’s upbringing, background, life’s experience and so forth that form their behaviour and reaction towards a relationship. it goes the same for a lady.
i know of ladies who doesnt mind their bf hanging wif other girls as those ladies were doin the same thing.
WELL, as for me, i known girls who cant keep their promises as they think guys shld accommodate them.