Things women love to hear
Here is a good post while I was searching for some infos. Worth while for you guys to spare some times at it, if you wanted to have a smooth-sailing relationship.
Women are straight foward: if you say the right things in an appropriate tone of voice, they’ll do what you want, and if you piss them off and are dumb enough to stand around, they’ll rip your head off.
#1: Show commitments about the future of being with her.
Women feel secure abt commitments, especially when you include her in you future plans. Say something that indicates to her that you intend to be a part of her life now and in future. Example, letting her know you already have a plan for two for you for along time.
#2: Give compliments
Women can’t live without compliments, trust me its true, its not the matter of women just wanting to hear compliments. Don’t hessitate to give compliments if you are genuinely mean it because the benefits will come back to you. Example:
“This dress looks great on you.”
“You look incredible” Every girl wants to hear this, when she has some troubles to look nice.
However, bear in mind, empty flattery is not a good idea!!
#3: Be Jealous
Women love to be pampered, show them how much we care. To them, men are the protectors in a relationship, they get irritated if men don’t act like it and started to look elsewhere. Example, demnstrates that the guy don’t want to lose her to anyone, being protective against other. You may use: “Who is that guy?” She will think you are still holding the competition.
#4: Ask questions
Women loves attention, we like it when our men demonstrate an interest on us. Example, like paying attention to previous conversations and remembering the key details. This of course it’s a score and can impress us!
Commonly asked questions:
“How was you day?” - simple, effective and a good start.
”How’s your mother doing? Better?” - impactful and will be impressed that you remembered to speak about her mother condition.
April 27th, 2008 at 9:20 pm
Not to offend but I have a impression that women or girls tend to like to hear the things that they want to hear. Bad news especially those can hurt them, they are usually preferred not be told. So to deal with girls, what you really need to do is to tell her what she wants to hear. How true is this?
May 26th, 2008 at 12:46 pm
Everybody needs to be pampered and want to hear something sweet, right ?
But actually women are from Venus and are from Mars . So, careful when dealing the women. Absolutely dangerous !! hahaha
May 27th, 2008 at 7:35 pm
Hahae AZMI, You are absolutely funny!