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Girls, if you happen to be in a group of girls in club, or either standing alone somewhere in station or inside elevator with a man. WATCH OUT! he could be another pick up artist, if he initiated to talk to you by wearing some weird stuff (not always), they called it “peacocking”, most likely this guy might be another pick up artist. How do you certain that he is another pick up artist?
Here’s some simple guide that I had gather from a guy friend who claimed himself a pick up artist. It’s obvious, most pick up artist just want sex. They have their own model of strategy to manipulate and control mind and environment under different circumstances, and most likely it would have less failure rate as they have been experiencing the same routine and practicing them everytime.
Pick up artist often carry the same pick up lines, they would start by asking something that cultivate your curiousity or trying to ask opinion from a girl point of view. It seems like a courteous way of asking, but it’s hidden with an agenda behind, they would continue with some usual test, like IQ test, horoscope, handwriting test and other physiology test that would interest you, because everyone are curious about themselves. If you happened to be in a group of girls and approach by pickup artist, if you noticed, they would always not talking to the one that he chosen as target, apparrently, if the target seems to talk, he would try to humiliate her, not too far but able to keep the girl silent, they called it “neg”. This method is trying to make the girl jealous for not getting attention from him. Once succeeded, he would go after the neglected target girl and would try to isolate the target from the group, through this way, the target would want to get accepted that she’s not abandon or aren’t attractive.
There are more tricks, such as infamous “cocky funny” techniques which at the same time being arrogant and funny to attract your attention. If you are with guys, they have this alpha male of group technique to neutralize the guy friend who is protecting you by dominating the situation. These pick up artist has nothing but treating every approaches as challenge and game. Their motive is clear, sex ….
Girls, despite all the tricks they have and we girls might not aware how many more new tricks is coming out, pick up artist are good sweet talker, gentle and sensitive towards woman, but they aren’t sincere.
It’s very hard to determine its sincere or not, there’s only 1 method that I always believe that works, pick up artist and player has no patient, they won’t put much efforts into a girl, they lost their patient after a period of time and start “sarging” other girls, while sincere guy are different, they look for love and not lust. It’s better to take a longer time to know a person more before putting your body at risk.
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August 19th, 2008 at 2:23 pm
Hmmm my response to your post is this video. Watch it and decide for yourself if all pickup artist is really as bad as you say .
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jNAi1Lso1IU Part 1
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HwB2xMFvwnE&feature=related Part 2
All these are social skills. It all depends on who is using it. I have an idea for your next blog post. How about you telling guys how to approach or chat up with girls since you already tell girls to beware of these methods. thanks
August 19th, 2008 at 5:00 pm
wah … i see all the MyBlogLog recent readers mostly guys! lolx
August 19th, 2008 at 5:59 pm
Thanks for the info. Now i understand some of their tactics:)
August 19th, 2008 at 6:06 pm
How to spot a pick up artist?…
Girls, if you happen to be in a group of girls in club, or either standing alone somewhere in station or inside elevator with a man. WATCH OUT! he could be another pick up artist, if he initiated to talk to you by wearing some weird stuff (not always),…
August 19th, 2008 at 6:50 pm
Precisely. Girls should always take longer time to get to know a guy/stranger. Knowing to protect ourself is important than anything else.
August 21st, 2008 at 6:21 pm
Dear Goodguy,
Like wat i always say, sincerity+persistency are always the most important factors to approach a girl. We girl can sense it! good luck.
Ps: thanks for the video sharing very nice of u. have a nice day.
Dear Sham,
Thanks for the visit and hope to cya round.
Dear Carrie,
Please be awared of the tactic, and these are just some of the common type.
Dear OOfooi,
Yup, I agree with u and only time will tell!!
September 10th, 2008 at 3:16 pm
I’m a foreign guy working in KL and I openly admit I’m a pick-up artist and yes, I do all those things and so much more. Unfortunately, you forget to mention that we guys have always been turned down by women who judged us by the way we look, how much we earn and what we’re wearing. I’m honestly happy I’m a PUA – it’s allowed me to meet wonderful women, some of whom I haven’t slept with but enjoyed long, meaningful connections with. To this day, I treat them with the utmost respect.
It’s rare to have a woman concerned about her fellow women and for that, I remain an admirer of your character. Just don’t make the mistake of scrutinizing every guy to see if he’s a PUA…you might miss out on something special.
Nice blog.
October 6th, 2008 at 6:45 pm
Okaay.. So the typical asian woman, such as yourself, DOES NOT want sex AT ALL and that all guys are pigs, scheming up various “tricks” to get into bed with girls..
the typical asian woman also cannot handle basic flirting and looks out instead for sincere guys looking for “love” (pretty boring if you ask me)..
In conclusion, what all women should be doing is to hide under the safety of a rock and fasten the locks of their chastity belts whenever they encounter so-called pick up artists instead of engaging in fun and witty conversations and outwit them instead..