How to know for sure he is cheating?
How do you know for sure that your man is cheating without snooping through his things?
#1: This is a hard one, the only way I got proof if I snooped. I know it’s wrong to do, but you also have the urgent need to know the truth. There are usually signs that you can look for if the two of you live together. It would be harder if you didn’t. But if he starts making excuses all the time to stay out late or not come home. Seems more distant and doesn’t treat you the same. That could be signs, even though its not concrete evidence either. If he is not treating you as good as you should be because he might be cheating, then that is your excuse for breaking up with him without your evidence.
#2: Go with your gut feeling. Tell him, “I feel something is wrong, what do you think?”. See what his reaction is. If he is quick to defend himself, you might want to start keeping a closer eye on him. Ultimately, if you are in a relationship where 100% trust is not being displayed or used, then maybe you need to be honest with him and simply say “I don’t feel that our relationship is 100% honest, not really sure why….I just feel that way”. Then just let nature take it’s course.
I will say that snooping is not the best way to find him cheating or not. I am more concerning about his behaviour and the way he treats me. But since you suspect he is there’s clearly no trust. Without trust, there’s no relationship. This is because suspicion is a self fulfilling prophecy, if you don’t have trust in the relationship it is in for a rocky time anyway.
Do you think I am too soft-hearted?
May 14th, 2007 at 11:51 pm
Just ask him if you feel something is wrong…
May 15th, 2007 at 12:13 am
I wrote this post for you!
http://www.internetfamous.net/2007/how-to-use-technoloy-to-catch-a-cheating-hushand.html
May 15th, 2007 at 8:24 am
Happy Teachers Day to you Miss Sharen for the upcoming 16th May !
Recently, I cannot login to MyBlogLog. I don’t know why. Maybe some technical error.
Now I’m at my home at Taman Keramat. Doing house chores like washing clothes, hanging them,cooks for my brother, sending them to school Bla..bla..bla..What can I say, my mother and father is busy all the time !
Do you think that a man that’s doing housewife’s job is funny ??
I’m I losing my masculinity ???
If I’m feeling bored, maybe I’ll hanging out with friends and watch movies.But, maybe majority of the time is playing games in front of the computer.
Hehehehe
My comment about your post is, it’s okay to be suspicious about your mate.
It’s a sign that you care about your relationship.
But, we must be careful in every action we do.
False action will be fatal to us.
That’s all Miss Sharen !
Bye2
May 15th, 2007 at 10:14 am
True, snooping is not a good idea but without snooping you may assume alot of thing and judge it wrongly, what is right is something that you can see from your own eye and of course, both of you will need to sit down and talk. I know sometimes there could be lie in between, but lie will tell the truth in future. If he love you, she would not had cheated you, or maybe it could be white lie. Communication does matter ! Cheers !!
August 25th, 2008 at 11:12 pm
Well she did it, she cheated. I still can\’t believe it.
June 11th, 2009 at 5:30 am
You made some good points there. I did a search on the topic and found most people will agree with your blog.