Do you think “Looks do matter”??
Looks may be superficial, but they are a big part of the first impression. If a person is very good-looking physically, and we know nothing about him, we are attracted. If not very good-looking, and we know nothing about him, it’s natural to not feel attracted.
#1: I once knew a guy who had “drop-dead” Hollywood good looks. Everyone who met him had that “wow” reaction. Later, I learned he was self-centered, dishonest, inconsiderate and kind of ignorant about a lot of things. Most of the people who really knew him didn’t think of him as handsome at all!
The thing to do is to get to know a guy better. First, be an acquaintance. If you learn more about him that makes you want to spend time with him, then be friends. After a while, if he proves he has tremendous “inner beauty” you may feel that attraction.
#2: The flower attracts bees with color and fragrance and the venus fly trap attracts prey with the promise of meat.
#3: A close friend of mine once told me, most guys that are good looking are often selfish and ignorant that only want to date many women at the same time, the same theory applies to beautiful ladies. Though I don’t think it’s true for everyone. So just read his soul, and if his inner is beautiful, catch the guy before some other does it.
#4: Physical appearance is important, but not the “most” important variable. If the person “hurts” my eyes, I cross that person off my list realizing this sounds superficial. I consider, honesty, intelligence, hygiene, the sound of a persons voice, speech pattern, and laughter, personal habits, mental health, posture, style of ambulation kindness, acceptance, sense of self, sense of humor, degree of positive attitude, prejudices, stability, displays of sensitivity and altruism, common sense, and the characteristics that he will contribute to the genetic potential of any of his offspring.
To me, a bit of everything matters, but not everything that shines is precious. As we discussed before in my previous post of “What do you look for in a girl”, inner beauty and pleasant personality are the most crucial things for majority to put under consideration as a lifetime partner.
I summarized as this way, nature has its own course, and natural selection is the rule of the universal. Survivors are those with stronger body and mind, those who are able to withstand unfavourable conditions, thus move forward to another level of life. The reason why we attracted to beautiful people because we think they have better nurture and child-bearing properties to favour the natural selection.
True or not?
May 21st, 2007 at 9:45 pm
Hhhaaa.. of course not
May 21st, 2007 at 10:00 pm
Yes, looks do matter. That is how the world works. The important thing is a lot of people do not realize the looks also come from within and not just from the outside(e.g. appearance). If you’re ugly in nature, you just need to be confident to yourself and sooner or later your confident will overwrite your outside and hence will attract a lot of people.
May 22nd, 2007 at 8:24 am
True or not ??
I don’t know …
Yes, the environment are demanding people to have good appearance.
I feel that outer beauty really can show our real inner beauty
This is because our attitude that makes us to dress in a proper way, make our body smells great, keep our body clean, keep a good breath when speaking with other people
So,actually sometimes we must judge a book by its cover
But, don’t totally buy it before we check out the content of the book
It applies same to a men.
We surely judge a girl by its face and how she dresses
But don’t forget to observe the way she speaks to the people around her, then way she handle problems and stress, personality, attitude and
spiritual quotion (SQ)
Right ? B)