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I find this song bring a meaningful message, love can’t everything be money and should not be money. The ultimate secret of love is sharing emotion and feelings together. Enjoy !

“Write You A Song”

I don’t know how to make lots of money
I got debts that I’m trying to pay
I can’t buy you nice things, like big diamond rings
But that don’t mean much anyway
I can’t give you the house you’ve been dreaming
If I could I would build it alone
I’d be out there all day, just hammering away
Make us a place of our own

I will write you a song
That’s how you’ll know that my love is still strong
I will write you a song
And you’ll know from this song that I just can’t go on without you

I don’t know that I’d make a good soldier
I don’t believe in being violent and cruel
I don’t know how to fight, but I’ll draw blood tonight
If somebody tries hurting you

I will write you a song
That’s how you’ll know that my love is still strong
I will write you a song
And you’ll know from this song that I just can’t go on without you

Now that it’s out on the table (it’s out on the table)
Both of us knew all along (knew all along)
I’ve got your loving and you’ve got my song

I don’t know how to make lots of money
I don’t know all the right things to do
I can’t say where we’ll go, but the one thing I know
Is how to be a good man to you
Until I die that’s what I’ll do

I will write you a song
That’s how you’ll know that my love is still strong
I will write you a song
And you’ll know from this song that I just can’t go on without
I will write you a song (I will write you a song)
That’s how you’ll know that my love is still strong (love is still strong)
I will write you a song
And you know from this song that I just can’t go on without you

 Ever wonder what you want in your life? What to be a successful entrepeuner? A popular singer? A hardworking boss with hundreds of employees? A Noble Price winner? An Oscar winner? What you want to be actually?

A close friend of mine, he says he wanted to have “a house and a happy family” only? He ever asks why is that so difficult to achieve his simple wishes? I replied him, saying “because you ask for the most hardest things to come true”.

Look at the people around you. How many of them are actully living with what they want? I remembered a respectful uncle of mine advised me: “Young girl, your life depends on yourselve and it’s in your hand!” I believed in him since that, however, as I grew older, I came to realised it’s not neccessary the way I thought of it.

Life is cruel, some people tried very hard to get what they want but they couldn’t get. On the other hand, some people have all the luck. Do you think life is fair and even? No matter how much we tried but what we got back generally is only half of it. Sorry to say, we tried our best. As a young and enthusiastic person, to me, I still am searching for what I want in my life. A simple life with a happy family? Definitely yes, but I am still working my way through.. 

Are you satisfy with your life, wonder if you are given a chance to exchange life with someone would you want to do it?

Someone says “I don’t like my life at the moment,but it won’t be better if my life is exchanged with someone else’s life. We all have problems, the only thing that matters is to be pleased with your life. No ones life is perfect,and some people we think have a perfect life have even more problems than us!” How about you??

Does sex distinguish the ego of a person? Have you guys dated ego maniac or know of someone who behaved like that? Men and women are ego too?

 ”According to the dictionary, Ego is a part of the mind that develops from the individual’s experience of the outside world. It operates in direct contact with reality, and is concerned with processing and evaluating information about the importance of and relationships between specific actions and behaviours of the individual. It is one of the three elements of Freudian theory. The ego, which is thought to have developed from the id attempts to reconcile the unconscious primitive demands of the id with the constraints imposed by the superego and with the individual’s awareness of the real world.”

It really annoys me. Especially when they’re the type who attempt to push themselves up by pushing everyone else down. It’s also a sign of insecurity, insecure people seem to do it more. Just like bullies in elementary school. Those bullies grow up, and eventually, some still remain the same. Too bad they can’t just learn to mature. On the other hand, the bullies-wanna-be, who were picked on mostly during early age; later in life, they prefer to pick on others in cowardly ways such as putting others down behind a computer screen, or yelling at telemarketers, who are just doing their jobs by the way, they can’t help it. Basically, they choose to pick on those who they think can’t do anything about it.  That’s why guys are more prone to act EGOly at the grown up age of their life.

Of course I came across women who are superego, such as bossy lady. Not to mention some of the lady bosses, I personally experienced many times. Ironically, having an EGO personality is not a wise choice because we think problems through, observe behaviours and then make judgements based on right actions. Ego doesn’t take into consideration of one’s feelings, intuition or ways of knowing other than logical thinking. When we being more considerate and little of toleration, we tend to think of others emotional. That’s why women are less prone to having this superego personality, in general speaking. This is because we are caring. Haha.

What do you think? Any women are more ego can speak up?

Having been blogging for the past 6 months, I learn more about blog and being a blogger. Stepping into the blog world had given me something to learn and something to share with students, relatives and friends in a different spectrum and of course I had make friends with other bloggers through mybloglog and aggregator site. Although I might not update the blog so frequent and I do hope I can spare my time to achieve my target to blog 3 post per week. Blogging is fun, but without my beloved readers, there’s no where I can go to encourage me to keep blogging. I would like to take this opportunity to thanks anyone who had direct and indirect in helping me and putting their valuable comments in my blog. Thanks a million.

Recently I just bought a domain, sharensia.com. Previously I had been using a friend sub-domain purplefly.bizolink.com. The reason I did not get a new domain when started blogging is because I am new and my friend told me to test try on his sub-domain before deciding to get and host my own blog. Finally after 6 months of hand-on with wordpress, I can have my own domain and blog. I hope to keep this domain running forever.

Last but not least, do you like the new looks of my blog ?