Archive for August, 2008

Girls, if you happen to be in a group of girls in club, or either standing alone somewhere in station or inside elevator with a man. WATCH OUT! he could be another pick up artist, if he initiated to talk to you by wearing some weird stuff (not always), they called it “peacocking”, most likely this guy might be another pick up artist. How do you certain that he is another pick up artist?

Here’s some simple guide that I had gather from a guy friend who claimed himself a pick up artist. It’s obvious, most pick up artist just want sex. They have their own model of strategy to manipulate and control mind and environment under different circumstances, and most likely it would have less failure rate as they have been experiencing the same routine and practicing them everytime.

Pick up artist often carry the same pick up lines, they would start by asking something that cultivate your curiousity or trying to ask opinion from a girl point  of view. It seems like a courteous way of asking, but it’s hidden with an agenda behind, they would continue with some usual test, like IQ test, horoscope, handwriting test and other physiology test that would interest you, because everyone are curious about themselves. If you happened to be in a group of  girls and approach by pickup artist, if you noticed, they would always not talking to the one that he chosen as target, apparrently, if the target seems to talk, he would try to humiliate her, not too far but able to keep the girl silent, they called it “neg”. This method is trying to make the girl jealous for not getting attention from him. Once succeeded, he would go after the neglected target girl and would try to isolate the target from the group, through this way, the target would want to get accepted that she’s not abandon or aren’t attractive. 

There are more tricks, such as infamous “cocky funny” techniques which at the same time being arrogant and funny to attract your attention. If you are with guys, they have this alpha male of group technique to neutralize the guy friend who is protecting you by dominating the situation. These pick up artist has nothing but treating every approaches as challenge and game. Their motive is clear, sex ….

Girls, despite all the tricks they have and we girls might not aware how many more new tricks is coming out, pick up artist are good sweet talker, gentle and sensitive towards woman, but they aren’t sincere.

It’s very hard to determine its sincere or not, there’s only 1 method that I always believe that works, pick up artist and player has no patient, they won’t put much efforts into a girl, they lost their patient after a period of time and start “sarging” other girls, while sincere guy are different, they look for love and not lust. It’s better to take a longer time to know a person more before putting your body at risk.