8 signs she is just not into you!!
Friday, February 8th, 2008Hey! Happy Chinese New Year!! As chinese we celebrate the second biggest festive in the country like nobody business. I have a few off-day and took this opportunity to share a post with you guys. P/s: Apologise for the long waiting and I am back now and stronger than ever..haha..
This topic is to highlight the signs that showing the girl you are going after is actually treat you purely on a friendship basis and is hard to go any further from the friendship. Sorry guys please get us correctly!! We don’t mean to hurt you but Love is blind sometimes.
Sign 1: She never return your calls despite millions of missed call from you
Simply! First call = as she may be playing hard to persue game. Second call = she shows less interest on you and doesn’t care to seek out your company. Third call = she is avoiding you.
Sign 2: Never ready for a relationship
Sorry to use this one when we are not interested in that guy. Women are simple creatures we often don’t want counterarguments and we don’t appreciate you as the relationship material. Probably she has more important things to be completed rather get you into a commitment.
Sign 3: She cancels plans with you without any notice
It is reasonable to cancel plans occasionally for a specific reason but if she does it consistently, move on, she holds little respect for you and ditch her quickly.
Sign 4: She avoid eye contact deliberately
Observe this one, Guys!! Girls want to close to you and make eye contacts, if they are into you. However, if she is not, she will try to avoid eye contact and physical proximity from you. This is our natural reaction to preserve some personal space to show she is not into you!
Sign 5: Her descriptive of perfect guys is not related to you at all
Come on, we are not trying to make you jealous, we are treating you as one of our friends. We are sharing thoughts of our dream guys and guys we like to hang out with. Oh god, we never relate you in the picture to get involve with you.
Sign 6: She tries to set you up with another girl
Girl do this because she treats you as a friend and wants to make certain you don’t hit on her. She never have the idea to date you. Be alert, certain girls will take this to test how much you are into her. For example, if you never try to ”convince” us that we are better than the girl we mentioned, probably you might get into troubles. haha, watch our guys.. We might confuse you sometimes…
Sign 7: She doesn’t appreciate what you have done for her.
Example: she doesn’t laugh at your jokes. This is because she can’t find your sense of humor and she doesn’t bother to pretend otherwise. Thumbs of the rule: smiling and laughing are the art of flirting, if she doesn’t laugh at all, you can be sure she shows no interest on you.
Sign 8: You see her less than twice in a month
Provided she is staying more than 50KM from you place then this sign is not valid. Girls dying to stick with the guy we interested in, no matter how and what. If she is always vague about making plans together, then please move on, we are neutral about your company and doesn’t want to commit.
Warning!!
Be alert, if you noticed 5 out of the above 8 signs then you can ditch her. “SHE IS JUST NOT INTO YOU”. and stop wasting your times, get Move On…
Any other signs you would like to share here? Or do you agree with me about the 8 signs?
