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Shopping and what’s window shopping, and how often do we window shop? The definition of window shopping is:

“Window shopping” is an English phrase meaning to look into glass windows of a shop for entertainment and imagine purchasing items without actually purchasing, possibly just to pass the time between other activities, or planning a purchase.

Some claims that� window shopping” means someone wants to go shopping for new windows, which is true. So, why called window shopping? If it’s not buying window. The only explanation given is because you’re browsing by looking at items through WINDOWS and you might possibly go into the store, find it, and buy it, and why baby oil named as such when it not made of babies? That�s because it is to use on baby. Got it?

The different between men and women is men tend to go shopping when in needs, while women go shopping for nothing, and it looks like it has been implant into our brain that we just love shopping. Men go in the shop and out in 5 minutes, while women have to touch everything before purchased, they walk out in 30 minutes, buying the same thing.

Men and women use their brains differently- women use both sides of their brain- men tend to be One sided in thought. Do you agree with this?

We enjoy Looking at pretty things, comparing prices, getting a bargain, planning on the next purchase, seeing what is new, etc.

Men’s logic and “linear” or “left-brained” thinking is attacked by feminists just as much as women’s intuition and “holistic” and “right-brained” tendencies of thought and outlook are attacked by chauvinists.

Yet again, because men don’t pay attention to what they are getting. They just grab something and go. Most of them don’t shop to save money, bargain hunt.

Women on the other hand shop for good deals trying to save money. And women also have to fix most of the meals for the family as well. So they have to make the money stretch and of course make up what the husband/boyfriend spent extra on.

Here’s another innovative ways to window shop:

Stagnation is common in every relationship even dating. But for a relationship to stay healthy, you need to find ways to keep things interesting. So if you always feel like you’re simply going through the motions, there are simple things you can do to spice things up. Read on for a few clever ways to keep her on her toes and yawn-proof your relationship.

Break the “rules” every once in a while
Instead of calling her on Wednesday to make plans for Saturday, try calling her that same morning for an impromptu date. And instead of waiting two days after that to call again, surprise her earlier… or wait a little longer.

In other words, don’t be too predictable with your phone calls; instead, mix things up. Avoiding dating “rules” and it will keep her guessing.

Don’t make yourself too available
If she suggests getting together on Friday, suggest Saturday. If she wants Sunday, suggest Tuesday. I am not advising that you do this consistently; I am suggesting that you give the appearance of having a healthy social life.

Be the one to end the phone call
My female friends are going to hate me for revealing one of their best tricks, but this is it. Why is it so successful? Mostly because the first few phone calls tend to determine the way a relationship will proceed. So after the conversation has run its course, politely end it and say goodbye. Using this trick just a couple of times will put you back in charge.

Be slightly mysterious
This is a classic tip. But be clear about one thing: When I say “mysterious,” I don’t mean weird. I simply mean that you should keep some things to yourself while pursuing her. Steer clear of conversations dealing with: 1) How much money you make; and, 2) Any and all ex-es. It will keep her curious about you.

Kiss her passionately, and then call it a night

and of course, keep things interestingly…

Remember this important fact: Keeping things exciting is not about acting like a jerk. Rather, it’s about keeping a healthy and fun balance of “give and take” in a relationship. Achieve that balance, and things should be a lot more interesting.

GOOD LUCK!

Having been blogging for the past 6 months, I learn more about blog and being a blogger. Stepping into the blog world had given me something to learn and something to share with students, relatives and friends in a different spectrum and of course I had make friends with other bloggers through mybloglog and aggregator site. Although I might not update the blog so frequent and I do hope I can spare my time to achieve my target to blog 3 post per week. Blogging is fun, but without my beloved readers, there’s no where I can go to encourage me to keep blogging. I would like to take this opportunity to thanks anyone who had direct and indirect in helping me and putting their valuable comments in my blog. Thanks a million.

Recently I just bought a domain, sharensia.com. Previously I had been using a friend sub-domain purplefly.bizolink.com. The reason I did not get a new domain when started blogging is because I am new and my friend told me to test try on his sub-domain before deciding to get and host my own blog. Finally after 6 months of hand-on with wordpress, I can have my own domain and blog. I hope to keep this domain running forever.

Last but not least, do you like the new looks of my blog ?

Do you believe this? Falling in Love not just give you strength, motivation and courage but also improves your brain. Have fun reading..

by Dr. R.L. Kaplan

It turns out that falling in love may be a powerful way to crank up the bodily chemicals that boost brain power and enhance learning ability.

According to a new research study done at the University of Pavia (Italy) and published in Psychoneuroendocrinology, when you fall in love, a special chemical spikes in the brain.

This special chemical is called NGF- Nerve Growth Factor.

NGF has been shown to:

• Create new brain cells and
• Cause other brain cells to grow and connect to each other- a process very important for learning ability.

Interestingly, this chemical spike only lasts about 1 year-after which it falls back down to normal levels. The scientists believe that the rise and fall of NGF correlates with the ‘rush’ you feel when you fall in love.

Of course, this makes sense from an evolutionary perspective, because ability to attract a desirable mate is highly correlated with intelligence.

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