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	<title>Comments on: 10 years of relationship broke up ! Sad sad story &#8230;</title>
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	<pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 09:49:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: precious</title>
		<link>http://www.sharensia.com/10-years-of-relationship-broke-up-sad-sad-story/#comment-1593</link>
		<dc:creator>precious</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2009 21:32:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>life will get better 
cuz time will heal all 
cuz if u know me then 
u will get over your problems
cuz all i was told
that life  is a bitch and live it before it takes you</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>life will get better<br />
cuz time will heal all<br />
cuz if u know me then<br />
u will get over your problems<br />
cuz all i was told<br />
that life  is a bitch and live it before it takes you</p>
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		<title>By: kirky</title>
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		<dc:creator>kirky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Aug 2008 20:00:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hi mate iv just split from my girl of 6 years just a few days ago im so sad and angry at the same time i feel as if im going down a big black hole and no one to save me she has a little girl which i brought up as my own she is six years old and full of life i love her so much and my ex is carrying my baby of six month she's due in december i know i still love her very much, but after all the things weve been through and came out the other side i havint a clue whats going to happen but if god is listening send down a prayer please. dont worry mate 10 yers is a long time but remember time heals everything....god bless ,from kirky</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hi mate iv just split from my girl of 6 years just a few days ago im so sad and angry at the same time i feel as if im going down a big black hole and no one to save me she has a little girl which i brought up as my own she is six years old and full of life i love her so much and my ex is carrying my baby of six month she&#8217;s due in december i know i still love her very much, but after all the things weve been through and came out the other side i havint a clue whats going to happen but if god is listening send down a prayer please. dont worry mate 10 yers is a long time but remember time heals everything&#8230;.god bless ,from kirky</p>
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		<title>By: Love is about forgiveness. Heartbreak please read. &#124; Purple Fly Community</title>
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		<dc:creator>Love is about forgiveness. Heartbreak please read. &#124; Purple Fly Community</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Jun 2008 18:23:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Notes: This post is dedicated to all heartbreak friends and commentators in post - 10 years of relationship broke up sad sad story [...]</description>
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		<title>By: HURTING BAD</title>
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		<dc:creator>HURTING BAD</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jun 2008 06:42:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i am goign through the same thing right now, this is the 3rd time in 2 years my misses is unsure about our love and i think this time it is the end, she has OCD so it is really making it hard for her to see the big picture anymore, i just wished she realised that you cant keep the spark forever, there is more to love, needing them everyday, wanting to hear there voice, touching them, hearing there voice.. i dont know how i can live without her nobody will be like her and i was only 6 months from propsoing myself, she is goign to make a mistake and i dont want to loose her. i am trying to be strong but she is my life and i am hers, she feels becuase there isnt a spark she doesnt love me the same anymore, i am worried i will do something stupid becuase i dont want to picture a life without her..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i am goign through the same thing right now, this is the 3rd time in 2 years my misses is unsure about our love and i think this time it is the end, she has OCD so it is really making it hard for her to see the big picture anymore, i just wished she realised that you cant keep the spark forever, there is more to love, needing them everyday, wanting to hear there voice, touching them, hearing there voice.. i dont know how i can live without her nobody will be like her and i was only 6 months from propsoing myself, she is goign to make a mistake and i dont want to loose her. i am trying to be strong but she is my life and i am hers, she feels becuase there isnt a spark she doesnt love me the same anymore, i am worried i will do something stupid becuase i dont want to picture a life without her..</p>
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		<title>By: Love is blind &#171; iRis</title>
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		<dc:creator>Love is blind &#171; iRis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Jun 2008 14:55:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] is&#160;blind  Listening to Tiffany&#8217;s If Love is Blind while reading about this story just makes me feel so down, so [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] is&nbsp;blind  Listening to Tiffany&#8217;s If Love is Blind while reading about this story just makes me feel so down, so [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Knowyourpain</title>
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		<dc:creator>Knowyourpain</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 May 2008 06:22:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I know your pain very well .... when through it 10 years ago and again now. I was never bad to this guy, he was not there when I need him the most. And he just let me go like if I was an old pair of shoes. Not to say I let another guy do that to me but, seeing him 10 years later on the same week that we broke up just killed me again. After 10 years I still love him, and the only thing I want for him is to be happy with who ever he is with and what ever he is doing with his life. I know it is hard, but be strong... I know of the dark place you are in, I have been there at least 2 times in the 10 years. At first it was very hard, I felt like a walking corps... then after 8 years I was fine... I accepted the fact that we each moved on. I only wanted him to be happy. But, when i saw him 8 years after we broke up, he was crying, I tell you "It just killed me" really really killed me... as I did before is work on myself and now I have 2 degrees to my name. I am so happy with my degrees, it makes the pain a little easy. If I would have seen him any other time then the week of our brake up I think I would have never flipped out and gone back to the dark place. But with a little help of anti depression medication, family and friends I worked through it. Not to say that I am totaly there yet, but I know there is a silver lining on the next cloud of dreams. You will meet some one new, and she will love you so much that you will be so happy. Clara will always hold a part of your hart, but as time passes you will forgive her. I tell you when you finaly for give her you will be free. I know I have done it 2 times out of 5 times seeing him in 10 yrs. And I know this time I have forgiven him faster then before, because if he had any hart he would not have shown up 10 years to the week of our brake up. It just goes to show that love hurts and it is harder to forgive someone that you know cares for you but not that much. 
The best advice to give you is work on yourself and get some help from your doctor, friends and family.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know your pain very well &#8230;. when through it 10 years ago and again now. I was never bad to this guy, he was not there when I need him the most. And he just let me go like if I was an old pair of shoes. Not to say I let another guy do that to me but, seeing him 10 years later on the same week that we broke up just killed me again. After 10 years I still love him, and the only thing I want for him is to be happy with who ever he is with and what ever he is doing with his life. I know it is hard, but be strong&#8230; I know of the dark place you are in, I have been there at least 2 times in the 10 years. At first it was very hard, I felt like a walking corps&#8230; then after 8 years I was fine&#8230; I accepted the fact that we each moved on. I only wanted him to be happy. But, when i saw him 8 years after we broke up, he was crying, I tell you &#8220;It just killed me&#8221; really really killed me&#8230; as I did before is work on myself and now I have 2 degrees to my name. I am so happy with my degrees, it makes the pain a little easy. If I would have seen him any other time then the week of our brake up I think I would have never flipped out and gone back to the dark place. But with a little help of anti depression medication, family and friends I worked through it. Not to say that I am totaly there yet, but I know there is a silver lining on the next cloud of dreams. You will meet some one new, and she will love you so much that you will be so happy. Clara will always hold a part of your hart, but as time passes you will forgive her. I tell you when you finaly for give her you will be free. I know I have done it 2 times out of 5 times seeing him in 10 yrs. And I know this time I have forgiven him faster then before, because if he had any hart he would not have shown up 10 years to the week of our brake up. It just goes to show that love hurts and it is harder to forgive someone that you know cares for you but not that much.<br />
The best advice to give you is work on yourself and get some help from your doctor, friends and family.</p>
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		<title>By: kk</title>
		<link>http://www.sharensia.com/10-years-of-relationship-broke-up-sad-sad-story/#comment-999</link>
		<dc:creator>kk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Apr 2008 18:23:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>the feeling is suck, really suck but trust me! few year later you don't even remember how she look like.. thats life..life is short, don't waste your time looking backward..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>the feeling is suck, really suck but trust me! few year later you don&#8217;t even remember how she look like.. thats life..life is short, don&#8217;t waste your time looking backward..</p>
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		<title>By: Keong</title>
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		<dc:creator>Keong</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Apr 2008 10:45:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Be strong my friend....

The only thing u can do is live for a better life and prove urself you are someone worth for marrying...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Be strong my friend&#8230;.</p>
<p>The only thing u can do is live for a better life and prove urself you are someone worth for marrying&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Sharen Sia</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sharen Sia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Apr 2008 15:30:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Brother,

Thanks for the motivation! you really outshine my darkness! 

Dear jason,

So happy to cya here, actually the writer has gone through her darkness of age and embracing the joyous of new life. thanks!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Brother,</p>
<p>Thanks for the motivation! you really outshine my darkness! </p>
<p>Dear jason,</p>
<p>So happy to cya here, actually the writer has gone through her darkness of age and embracing the joyous of new life. thanks!!</p>
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		<title>By: Jason</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jason</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Apr 2008 23:41:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This feels just like what I'm going through now. It really sucks, but I have decided to try to take control of my emotions the best I could.

Do you have an update? How are things going now that it's been a few months?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This feels just like what I&#8217;m going through now. It really sucks, but I have decided to try to take control of my emotions the best I could.</p>
<p>Do you have an update? How are things going now that it&#8217;s been a few months?</p>
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